The Consummate

It’s Time To Come Clean

Posted in art, artists, beauty, Feminism, health, life, love, music, relationships, WTF by the consummate on June 11, 2011

Homeboy I’m through.

Learn from the past, proceed, get better.

Never Will Be Mine – Rye Rye ft Robyn


Posted in art, artists, beauty, Feminism, health, humor, life, love, relationships, subculture, yoga by the consummate on May 14, 2011

Yes, I know I am bossy. I’m working on being less aggressive with my “bossyness” but it’s hard being a woman with a brain who knows what she wants, the way she wants it and when she wants it. When you’re a feminist like me who grew up in a patriarchal culture, the sticks of California, where Jesus reigns & women are expected to submit to the will of men (especially the stupid ones) you feel so much resistance within. Have you ever seen those episodes of The Real Housewives of Orange County? Those women can’t even fucking take out a tampon without their husbands on top of them. This is a common practice in 2011? Can a lady get some time to take a shit, alone?

The lifetime of hearing my Eastern European mother sternly tell me “never let a man control you” doesn’t really add to my bossy situation. Add the nearly 10 years of living in New York City & working in my FORMER profession (selling salt to snails) doesn’t help. My “bossyness” is a knee jerk reaction and kind of like an over compensation for what I’ve experienced and still experience. So listen people, I’m trying hard here. Believe me.  It’s been over 30 years of living and things don’t change over night. So tranquilo.

Speaking of bossy, I’m currently reading BOSSYPANTS by Tina Fey. HIGHLY RECOMMEND IT!!!

PS: Am I being bossy?

And Lightning Strikes, Maybe Once, Maybe Twice

Posted in animals, art, artists, beauty, fashion, Femimism, friendship, life, love, music, oldies, relationships, sex, spirituality, subculture, travel, Uncategorized, WTF by the consummate on February 13, 2011


Posted in art, artists, family, health, judaism, life, love, relationships by the consummate on December 9, 2010

Satya means truth in sanskrit.

Ain’t Nothing Wrong With Another Unity Song

Posted in health, life, music, photography by the consummate on August 10, 2009



Unity – Operation Ivy

Today I can’t get enough of Op Ivy and subversive feminism. UNITY AS ONE STAND TOGETHER.