The Consummate


Posted in friendship, health, life, love, relationships, spirituality, WTF by the consummate on November 30, 2009

Received this from one of my best friends earlier this month. Haven’t spoke with her directly since receiving this email. Figured she needed a chance to drop those pounds.


You left the scale here and I weighed myself and now I am completely
depressed–Is that what you wanted? All you talk about is weight and
your body and my body and IM OVER IT! You make me feel worse about
myself and you constantly throw things in my face..Its either you
saying you feel sooo fat or looking at me and telling me something
about my body….

I need to loose weight and think that during this process it would be
better If I did not talk to you as you do not help me in this way at


I found this to be appalling as well as quite humorous. I’m not sure why telling someone they look like they’ve lost a few pounds makes them feel bad? Can anyone divulge?

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Brothers & Sisters

Posted in animals, family, health, life, relationships by the consummate on September 7, 2009

This is an older photo published a gazillion times since wildfire erupted in Australia last season. Yet still it is an incredible testament to those beautiful human beings who help out our sisters and brothers of all shapes, sizes, creed, species, etc. I love this image. It warms my heart and renews my faith in humanity and a beautiful world to come.

Boy, You Best Pray That I Bleed Real Soon

Posted in art, artists, experimental video, film, health, life, music, relationships, sex, yoga by the consummate on August 29, 2009

Miss Jamaica

Posted in family, life, music, photography, relationships by the consummate on August 21, 2009

Don’t Cry Alice

Posted in health, life, plants, relationships, spirituality, yoga by the consummate on August 17, 2009

Mourner’s Kaddish

Posted in life, spirituality by the consummate on July 30, 2009

RIP Yaffa bat Rachel. I love you Ben & Rivka.


Posted in Uncategorized by the consummate on May 30, 2009

I’m just wondering why we can’t be friends? I’m ok with it. Nothing more, nothing less. Hope you can find it in your heart to try it.


It suits us better anyway…